Friday, December 12, 2008

Disappointing Appointments

Olivia had a busy couple of days with appointments both yesterday and today. Yesterday we saw the Nephrologist. That appointment was rather disappointing. It began with me goofing on the appointment time. I thought the appointment was at 10:00 but it wasn’t until 10:40. At 10:30 I asked if the renal clinic was running behind, which is when they told me that Olivia’s appointment wasn’t until 10:40. I asked again later, probably around 10:50, and was told that they still had to take the 10:00 appointment back. They finally took us back for check-in at 11:00, but then back to the waiting room we went. At about 11:45 they took us to an exam room, where we waited until after 12:30 to see the doctor. The doctor then was slightly unpleasant to deal with. Olivia’s geneticist said that we need to be checking her blood pressure on her leg, because her upper arm is just too small, but the nephrologist strongly disagrees with that. She acted angry with me because the geneticist hadn’t talked to her about that. She huffed at me several times telling me she “just didn’t know what to even do with these blood pressures”, referring to the readings we’ve taken at home. By that point I was seriously aggravated and told her that this was really frustrating to me that we are being told different things by different doctors and then have to make the decision of which advice to follow. We then end up looking like the bad guys with whichever doctor’s advice we don’t follow. I told her that I wished we could have a meeting with all of Olivia’s doctors at the same time, and get some of these issues resolved! After that, she was much nicer to me and said she would look into whether there were norms for taking blood pressures on the legs for kids with achondroplasia. We have to go back for a follow-up and another renal ultrasound in June, and next week for a follow-up echocardiogram.

Today Olivia saw the pulmonologist. She was less than pleased with being back at the doctor’s office again. I had hopes of turning her oxygen down, but no such luck. Her oxygen levels were not very good. On the plus side, her numbers were good enough that we didn’t have to increase the oxygen. While there I also met with the nutritionist that works with the pulmonary team. She is awesome, and we talked for a long time about Olivia’s feeding and vomiting issues. She then talked to GI who is going to get back to me on Monday about possibly doing a pH probe study. That is where they stick a probe, about the size of the feeding tube that she used to have in her nose, up her nose and down her esophagus. It will help them to determine the severity of her reflux. This is such a concern because while she was taking almost 60% orally per day when she came home in June, she now averages about 5% orally per day. She is also vomiting, not spitting up, but vomiting. She dry heaves and turns red in the face and then projectile vomits several times each day, which is hindering her weight gain. We might not be able to solve her issues by doing the pH probe study, but it will at the very least be one more thing to rule out.

Next week Olivia will see our primary care doctor, the GI doctor, and also have the follow-up echo that I mentioned above. She’s one busy little girl these days!

7 comments:

Jennifer said...

I'm so glad that you stood up for yourself and Olivia with the nephrologist! There's absolutely no excuse for poor bedside manner but unfortunately it's pretty common. Cat and Dan have been equally frustrated at times with so many specialists telling them what to do for Owen. Olivia is so precious. Keep up the good work.

Destini said...

I probably would have had a meltdown in the doctor's office - way to hold it together and get your point across! How frustrating that Olivia is having so many issues - I know that projectile vomiting is no fun, Trace projectile vomited for over a year - yuck! Good luck next week!

Unknown said...

It must be so difficult trying to manage all the different doctors at once. You guys do a phenomenal job taking care of busy little Olivia! I give you so much credit...hopefully it will get easier as she continues to improve!

Greene Family said...

I hope the doctors appts continue to get better and less frequent for you soon! Olivia is so adorable, and as Emily said, you guys are doing a phenomenal job with your busy little girl! Simon's appts started to slow down some around his first birthday. When they check his blood pressure at the doctor's office, they usually have to use his leg still since his arms are so small. Good luck with all of her upcoming appts!

Caden and Mommy said...

Becky!
I'm sorry the appointments didn't go as well as you hoped. There is NOTHING more frustrating then waiting for an appointment with a child! I would rather they keep us waiting in the waiting room then take ya back to a little room. At least in the big room there are other people for the kids to watch.
Trisha

Kim said...

Becky, God bless you. Seriously. You have had a lot of ups and downs. The only thing is, Olivia is a miracle, a dream and you get to keep her in your arms and kiss her 1000 times a day. She is so lucky to have you as a mom fighting for her every step of the way. The positive side of the pulmonary appt to me is the oxygen staying the same. It can only get better from here. I hope that the GI docs can help you with the vomiting.
In the meantime give that cutie pie a big hug from us!

The Reynolds Family said...

YIKES! Keep your chin up...you are doing an amzing job. I totally understand what it feels like to deal with the doctors, appointments and waiting. It isn't easy. We have the same problem with Grace about the blood pressure cuff. I think LPA did a study on it...I'll let you know if I learn anything.